Pour Toi
For you. With intention.
A calmer way to meet someone who values what you value.
Our Foundation is Respect
We built Pour Toi on principles that foster a safe, calm, and respectful environment.
Intention Over Swiping
We encourage thoughtful consideration over mindless browsing. Our process is designed to help you focus on compatibility.
User-Defined Values
Your faith, boundaries, and intentions are protected and respected. You are in control of what matters most to you.
Emotional Safety by Design
From AI-mediated introductions to behavioral analysis, our tools are built to protect and empower our members.
A More Considerate Path to Connection
Our unique approach guides you through a journey of self-reflection and meaningful discovery.
- Complete Your Profile: Share your values, intentions, and boundaries through our mandatory, non-skippable onboarding.
- AI-Assisted Matching: Our Unanimous AI silently works to find potential matches based on deep compatibility, not just surface-level traits.
- Mediated Introductions: When a strong potential match is found, our AI initiates a neutral introduction on your behalf, ensuring mutual consent and comfort.
- Transition to Mobile: Continue the conversation securely on our dedicated mobile app, designed for privacy and focused communication.
Trust, Safety, and Transparency
Our commitment to your well-being is unwavering. AI is our ally in creating a safer space.
Protective AI Mediation
Our AI acts as a neutral third party, filtering interactions and assessing behavioral risk to prevent harassment and dishonesty. It protects, it does not persuade.
Human Oversight
Our team of moderators and AI auditors review flags, handle appeals, and ensure our systems are fair and accountable. AI decisions are explainable and can be appealed.
AI Transparency
We believe in explainable AI. Our legal documents include a clear AI Transparency statement, and users can request explanations for account restrictions.
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