AI Transparency Statement

Last updated: February 12, 2026

At Pour Toi, we use artificial intelligence (AI) to create a safer and more intentional dating experience. This statement explains how and why we use AI in our Services.

1. Our Philosophy on AI

We believe AI should be a tool that serves our members' best interests. Our AI systems are designed to protect, not persuade. They act as neutral facilitators, guided by principles of emotional safety, respect, and user-defined values. We are committed to transparency and accountability in how our AI operates.

2. How We Use AI

Our AI performs three primary functions:

Behavioral Risk Assessment: Our AI analyzes user-provided information and on-platform behavior to identify patterns that may indicate a risk of harmful conduct (e.g., harassment, catfishing, scamming). This system flags profiles for review by our human moderation team. It is a probabilistic tool, not a definitive judgment.Decisions about user accounts are always made with human oversight.
AI-Assisted Matching: Our matching algorithms go beyond surface-level preferences. The AI considers deeper compatibility based on your stated intentions, values, and boundaries to suggest potential matches.
AI-Mediated Introductions: To foster a calmer, more respectful environment, our AI initiates introductions between potential matches. It crafts a neutral, brief message based on shared interests, ensuring that both parties have a comfortable and safe starting point for a conversation. It does not reveal sensitive information like your exact location.

3. Data Used by Our AI

Our AI models are trained on and use the information you provide in your profile, your stated preferences, and your on-platform behavioral data (such as communication patterns). We are committed to data minimization and only use the data necessary for the AI's intended function. Your religious and personal boundaries are treated as protected data and are not used to make negative inferences.

4. Human Oversight and Appeals

We believe in accountability. All significant AI-driven decisions, such as account restrictions or suspensions, are subject to human review. If your account is flagged or restricted based on an AI assessment, you have the right to appeal the decision. Our human moderation team will conduct a thorough review.

5. Continuous Improvement

We are constantly working to improve the fairness, accuracy, and ethical performance of our AI systems. We regularly audit our models for bias and seek feedback from our community.

1. Our Philosophy on AI

2. How We Use AI

Our AI performs three primary functions:

Behavioral Risk Assessment: Our AI analyzes user-provided information and on-platform behavior to identify patterns that may indicate a risk of harmful conduct (e.g., harassment, catfishing, scamming). This system flags profiles for review by our human moderation team. It is a probabilistic tool, not a definitive judgment.Decisions about user accounts are always made with human oversight.

AI-Assisted Matching: Our matching algorithms go beyond surface-level preferences. The AI considers deeper compatibility based on your stated intentions, values, and boundaries to suggest potential matches.

AI-Mediated Introductions: To foster a calmer, more respectful environment, our AI initiates introductions between potential matches. It crafts a neutral, brief message based on shared interests, ensuring that both parties have a comfortable and safe starting point for a conversation. It does not reveal sensitive information like your exact location.

3. Data Used by Our AI

4. Human Oversight and Appeals